So often we seek praise or validation from others… but rather than waiting for someone else to tell us how smart/beautiful/amazing we are… How about telling it to yourself more often?​​​​​​​​

The relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have. If you want others to treat you like a goddess, YOU have to treat yourself like a goddess first.​​​​​​​​

Don’t wait for someone else to buy you flowers.​​​​​​​​

Don’t wait to wear your favourite dress just because you are saving it to impress someone else…​​​​​​​​

Don’t wait for someone else to give you approval before you give approval to yourself.​​​​​​​​

Don’t wait for someone to tell you “you’re good enough” before you feel good enough to go for it. ​​​​​​​​

Don’t wait for someone else to say I love you before you feel lovable.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

You don’t need validation from anyone. You just need to know that you are perfect, amazing & loved right now, as you are. ​​​​​​​​

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