When you reach the place where you’re no longer mad or upset or hurt about the way some people chose to treat you or leave you, but you recognise they were just another piece of the puzzle to get you to where you need to be…you’ve found grace.

When you reach the place where you’re no longer sad or heartbroken that someone chose to leave your life at all, but you recognise that they actually did you a huge favour…you’ve found freedom.

And when you reach the place where you’re no longer regretful or angry or unforgiving toward yourself for any person you chose to be with or any relationship you didn’t leave when you knew you should have…but you recognise that you were only human, you were doing the best you could, and God was actually allowing you to settle because sometimes it takes someone NOT seeing your worth & value for YOU to finally rise up & see it.

You’ve found YOURSELF!

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