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Be on your own ‘to-do’ list

What are you doing for YOU today? This is where you start making sure you’ve included yourself on your own ‘to-do’ list. To sustain your optimal level of well-being, you need to take responsibility for scheduling self-care and treat it as the most important job in the world – because it simply is.

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This does not mean booking a holiday or shopping trip (although you can if you want to), but rather a deep level of care. It is about honouring yourself and not succumbing to anxiety or guilt about looking after yourself.

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Making pleasure a priority is critical for extreme self-care. Real pleasure is achieved by developing habits that make you feel happy and nurtured. These could include:

  • listening to the music you love on your commute to work
  • drinking your favourite tea each morning
  • buying flowers for your work desk or home
  • going out for dinner once a fortnight with friends
  • seeing a movie every month
  • taking a break from work in the middle of the day to get out into nature
  • booking a regular pedicure
  • visiting your local museums or art galleries
  • organising regular walks with friends
  • curling up with a book on Sunday afternoons

Your success toolkit is your immediate go-to when you are feeling a bit out of control, stressed and stuck. It is your personal backup for when life throws a curveball or you’re just worn out and will help put you back in the driver’s seat again.

 

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  • My intentions for the rest of the Summer - KIRAN SINGH
    04/08/2024

    […] READ MORE: Be on your own ‘to-do’ list […]

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  • 101 Daily Habits to Improve Life - KIRAN SINGH
    12/01/2025

    […] 40. Prioritise yourself. I know it’s hard to think about yourself first, and maybe it isn’t necessary to do it all the time, but ignoring your needs is bad for you and the people around you. Have your Journal to remind you to think of ways to nourish Yourself too. […]

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